Category: Good Life

Overcome helpless

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Feeling helpless is very bad. What can you do to overcome it?

 

First, we must understand that it’s not a dead end. It’s a feeling and you can change it.

 

There’s no automatic way to change that feeling. You’ll have to choose to work on it and take action to do so.

 

“We are all ordinary. We are all boring. We are all spectacular. We are all shy. We are all bold. We are all heroes. We are all helpless. It just depends on the day.”

– Brad Meltzer

You have what you need to change that feeling of helplessness. Don’t wait for someone else to do it for you. They can’t.

 

Most people don’t want to talk about helplessness.

 

It’s there in the heart of a lot of people. Denying it will not resolve that situation.

 

We all felt that feeling. No one is immune to it.

 

Let’s face reality and do our best to help those who are stuck in it.

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Happy job

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Find something that you like in your job.

 

The more things you like with your job, the more you’ll like your job. This may seems complicated, but if you can find something to like with you job, your job will be a lot easier.

 

“Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”

– Albert Schweitzer

 

So, if you want to be successful in your job, you need to like something about what you do.

 

Too many people want to do only what they like. They focus on one or two things and just want to do that. It’s an impossible dream.

 

Yes you could end up doing something you really like, but there’s always a little something in it that you don’t. If you can find the will to do what you don’t like, it will become a drive into becoming the best in that fields.

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Away

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Give away the extra that you have.

 

Give away with a true heart.

 

Give away with joy.

 

“To give without any reward, or any notice, has a special quality of its own.”

– Anne Morrow Lindbergh

 

You’ll feel great about it. It will bring new energy and a drive to accomplish your dream.

 

Friendship will come out of those actions. Good actions brings good relation.

 

All good actions are good, even if you do them without a true heart. You can never go wrong with a good action.

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Confidence

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Confidence is build. Usually with a lot of mistake and hard work.

 

To build your confidence, you’ll have to face your fear and take action. You know what needs to be done.

 

“Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful; perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all.”

– Norman Vincent Peale

 

You’ll make mistakes, we all do. It’s what you do next that matters.

 

After a mistake, adjust and keep going on.

 

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.”

– Dale Carnegie

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No good

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There is no good anger.

 

If you think you need anger to drive you into action, those actions will be tinted with that bad energy.

 

“You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.”

– Buddha

You build your drive without anger. You can build a positive action drive with your dream to fuel them.

 

“Every day we have plenty of opportunities to get angry, stressed or offended. But what you’re doing when you indulge these negative emotions is giving something outside yourself power over your happiness. You can choose to not let little things upset you.”

– Joel Osteen

Little or big, nothing should drive you into rage or anger. Stay out of those negative emotions and focus on solution to keep yourself free from them.

 

Your dream is giving you the fuel to drive your action. Don’t let anger mix into those actions. Keep them clean and positive.

 

“Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.”

– Mark Twain

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Action taker

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Nothing great is accomplish without taking action.

 

Be among the doers.

 

“A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.”

– George Bernard Shaw

 

There’s too many lookers in this world. Too many people waiting for someone else to do what they should have done.

 

If you expect someone else to do it for you, you’ll never get what you really want.

 

“It takes half your life before you discover life is a do-it-yourself project.”

– Napoleon Hill

 

Wake up! Take charge of your success!

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Choose

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Know yourself. Grow into what you dream and act upon.

 

“Do you want to know who you are? Don’t ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you.”
– Thomas Jefferson

 

Your actions will determined your legacy. You legacy is always about what you did. Be a doers and leave your mark.

 

“A leader should demonstrate his thoughts and opinions through his actions, not through his words.”
– Jack Weatherford

 

History never remember the followers, it remembers the leaders. Leaders take action and move on.

 

If you take action and move on, you have better chances to become a leader.

 

“A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others. He does not set out to be a leader, but becomes one by the equality of his actions and the integrity of his intent.”
– Douglas MacArthur

 

Most leader don’t intent on becoming one at the beginning. They become because they took actions and inspire others with it.

 

Do your best every day. Do better the next day. And keep going on.

 

Be nice with others that you can help. Be someone they can come up to and find great answers. Don’t expect a return and you’ll get one.

 

Energy

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You want to help others. You think you have something to bring them.

 

Save your energy for the right people.

 

When you open yourself to someone and find out that they only want to take your dreams down. Stop, don’t argue, smile and pray for them. Then go away.

 

If they don’t have an open mind to what you are saying, then you should not waste your time with them.

 

Pray for them and hope that someday they will open themselves to what you think. If they don’t it will be their choice.

 

You can’t help everyone.

 

Some people will be open to you and others will not.

 

Focus on those who will be listening.

 

Wish

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Be careful what you wish for. You may get it.

 

When you wish for something to happen, you sent intention. The more that intention is linked with emotion, the more power your wish will have.

 

“Consider the implications. We think we know what we want, but we can never really know until we’ve got it. And sometimes when we have, we discover we never really wanted it in the first place – but then it’s too late”
– Alexandra Potter

 

How can you reach your goal if you don’t know what they are?

 

You have to be sure of what you with for, before you wish for it.

 

A wish is not a game. It’s a funny ritual without meaning.

 

Treat your wish with respect and they will come into your life with the same respect.

 

Anger

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Anger is directly linked to your Ego.

 

“Anger is an emotional response to being wronged, denied or offended.”

– Joseph Langen

 

The bigger your ego, the more reason to be angry you’ll find.

 

“In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves.”

– Buddha

We think that we are what we have. We think that we are what we accomplish. And we evaluate others based on that.

 

“The ego is only an illusion, but a very influential one. Letting the ego-illusion become your identity can prevent you from knowing your true self. Ego, the false idea of believing that you are what you have or what you do, is a backwards way of assessing and living life.”

– Wayne Dyer

You can choose to leave your ego at the door. Let the haters be who they want to be. But not letting them implicate you into their hate spiral. Nothing good can come out of hate and anger. Keep yourself away from them.

 

“Leadership is not a popularity contest; it’s about leaving your ego at the door. The name of the game is to lead without a title.”

– Robin S. Sharma

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