Blaming someone will not solve a problem.
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame them, it will not change you.”
– Wayne Dyer
When you want to solve a problem, you need to understand what it means to you and what you should change about it.
No amount of blame will solve a problem.
Responsibility for what you did is all up to you.
The only way to change a situation is to take responsibility and find a solution.
Invest your energy into finding the solution instead of finding who to blame.
“Great leaders don’t rush to blame. They instinctively look for solutions.
– Nina Easton
If you can focus your will, you’ll get anything you want.
The concept of time is a security set up into our reality. If we don’t keep our mind focus on something, the universe don’t take notice of it.
“To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders.”
– Lao Tzu
Dream big dream. Then take action toward them. Be consistent and the universe will surrender.
If keep on changing your mind about your dream, they will never take shape in reality.
“Stay focused, go after your dreams and keep moving toward your goals.”
– LL Cool J
Your senses are bringing you a lot of information. If you learn to listen to your inner feeling, you’ll find out that it’s your best source of information about what is happening around you.
“Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.”
– H. Jackson Brown, Jr.
We all have access to our inner feelings. Most don’t listen to them.
When you get a feeling that you should do something, then it would be wise to find a way around it.
“There’s an inner feeling you get when you get in a situation to do well in a game. It’s hard to explain.”
– Jim Thome
Only you can get it. No one can listen to your inner feeling.
As you are the only one to get it, no one can tell you if it’s ok to listen to it or not.
Don’t wait! You’ll never find the perfect set up.
Take action and go for it.
Adjust and keep going on.
If you wait, things will never get better.
Those who waits never get anywhere. Those who waits are also the ones whining.
Do you want to be among the whiners or the winners?
Always do your best.
There’s no perfection, only the will to reach for it.
“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.”
– Theodore Roosevelt
Do your best for yourself first. People will notice as you best yourself again and again.
In time, the best are the peoples who bested themselves on and on. They don’t compare themselves with others.
“Always do your best. What you plant now, you will harvest later.”
– Og Mandino
You need to develop the habit of being constant in your effort to besting yourself every day.
What do you like to do?
In what you like to do, find something that you are very good already in it. Then focus on developing it to become the best.
No one can do it for you. You’ll have to work hard and keep doing so.
I’ll recommend a great book from Og Mandino!
Strength is directly linked to your action as you face fear.
Don’t compare yourself with others.
“You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’”
– Eleanor Roosevelt
Experience will help you understand and learn.
It’s way better to take action and make mistakes. Mistakes are the stones on which success is built.
“Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.”
– Helen Keller
Without experience, success is just an illusion.
Here’s a good book about courage. War Stories: Gripping Tales of Courage, Cunning and Compassion – Click here!
What drives you to keep going on?
Did you take the time to think about it?
There’s always a point where we choose to keep going on or quit. As we reach that point, we find out if our drive is good enough to keep us going on.
“Courage is found in unlikely places.”
– J. R. R. Tolkien
You need to find a great drive if you want to reach success.
“The road to success is not easy to navigate, but with hard work, drive and passion, it’s possible to achieve the American dream.”
– Tommy Hilfiger
Easy success is an illusion. If you think that it can be real, then you are an easy prey for scammer.
Success is simple. Success needs hard work and a deep drive.
I would suggest a good book about Willpower. Get it here.