Toxic Negativity by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

When you feel the need to blame someone else for your sorry life, it means that you are not ready to face the reality of your behavior.

No one can make you happy!

You are the only one that can choose to be happy or not!

If you’re not happy, it’s not because of anyone or anything around you.

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If Dr. Edith Eva Eger can overcome the Holocaust, then you can overcome your habits that makes your life.

You have the power to change, it’s all in your hand.

Stop waiting and start doing.

New Day by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

Be strong!

Get up and be happy today!

Look at this day with the eye of a creator. You have the power to influence what will become of this day. You choose the way you see things and how you react to them. Choose wisely.

Let the negativity of others pass you by.

They can’t be reasoned with.

Negativity is all about the basic instinct of fear. They want you to join them into it. Negative people are feeling so bad in their life that they feel the need to bring others to share it. They don’t want to be alone.

Feel sorry for their pain, but don’t join them.

Push Forward by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

Hard times are real.

It’s up to you to choose to keep pushing forward or not.

If you don’t go forward, it’s your choice. Your choices doesn’t need to be approved by others.

Be happy for the success of others and use it to motivate you to go forward.

It’s not because someone failed that everyone should too.

It’s not because you failed that others should not try do it better than you. And even if you failed, it doesn’t give you the power to stop anyone from doing it.

Stop searching for someone else to take the blame for your sorry life.

Take responsibility!

As long as you are conscient about it, you have responsibility.

As soon as you need to justify, you know you could have done better.

Moving forward means taking responsibility and keep going on to do it better.

Too many blaming online.

Too much energy wasted on the illusion of doing something good in blaming. There’s nothing positive in blaming. It’s an illusion to feel good about it. Because it never ends.

That energy could be used to bring something good in the world.

Be strong and use your energy to build something good.

Do something positively good!

Toxic B.S. by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

What is toxic positivity?

“The overgeneralization of a happy, optimistic state that results in the denial, minimization and invalidation of the authentic human emotional experience.”

Positivity is not about denial. It’s about being strong enough to not let evenement break us. It’s keeping the flame alive against all odds.

“Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempt to escape the negative, to avoid it or quash it or silence it, only backfires. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is a struggle. The denial of failure is a failure. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame.”

– Mark Manson

The people who are using denial are the same thinking they can use any excuses to do whatever they want without taking any responsibility.

When you need to mask your action, you’re not positive, you’re just full of BS.

People who use positivity to justify their bad attitudes are just full of BS.

People who can face their reality without using excuses and keep going on are the real positive people.

You’re not positive in relation with others, you’re positive in relation with yourself and what’s happening to you.

You can’t get anyone to see hope in any situation. If they can’t see it, you can’t change that. You can only listen and hope they’ll find the strength to see a way out.

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Positive reality by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

Reality is all about perception.

Perception is treated by our brain. Doing so, we interpret and change reality according to what we have learned.

When we face reality, we have the power to change the way it is interpreted.

A positive mind choose to look for the good in reality. Doing so, it changed reality in how it is interpreted.

“Positive anything is better than negative nothing.”

– Elbert Hubbard

Positivity is a choice.

“Winners make a habit of manufacturing their own positive expectations in advance of the event.”

– Brian Tracy

Positivity and love goes together. Negativity and hate goes together. It’s a choice, and it’s all in your hands.

Being positive is all about you. Stop imposing yourself to others, if they don’t see reality as you do, it’s ok they don’t have to agree with you.

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Fresh New Start by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

Your time is now.

This is the moment you take another step toward your success.

Everyday is a fresh new start.

Be so good they can’t ignore you.

Do it for you. This is only for you.

Start now.

Move foward.

You can make it.

Choose before it’s too late.

Take action now.

You have time.

You have the will power to get it done.

Do you want it or not? Choose now!

Don’t expect someone else to choose for you. Choose now!

It don’t work if you don’t work. There is no inbetween. If you want something you got to be relentless.

To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.

Get up and get on with your life!

Mistake and failure, we all having them in our life. Be among the people who keep on doing their best.

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End Procrastination by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

Stop using excuses!

Stop visiting the Illdoittomorrow Island!

No one will do it for you!

Start now! No more excuses!

Get tired of being where you are! Start to get tired of living a life that isn’t what you dream it should be!

Find a reason to do it and then do it!

Get things done!

You can rest, after you did what you should do.

It’s way better to ‘do one good things a day’ for 30 days then to do many great things once a week for 30 days.

You have to realize that procrastination is the sickness of the mass. Most people don’t do anything good in their days. They just do the minimum to get fired. They don’t do anything to go for their dreams because they think they can do that later.

Look around you. Success is not associated with luck. It’s everyday hard work that bring success.

What are trying to do with your life?

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