Look at this day with the eye of a creator. You have the power to influence what will become of this day. You choose the way you see things and how you react to them. Choose wisely.
Let the negativity of others pass you by.
They can’t be reasoned with.
Negativity is all about the basic instinct of fear. They want you to join them into it. Negative people are feeling so bad in their life that they feel the need to bring others to share it. They don’t want to be alone.
“The overgeneralization of a happy, optimistic state that results in the denial, minimization and invalidation of the authentic human emotional experience.”
Positivity is not about denial. It’s about being strong enough to not let evenement break us. It’s keeping the flame alive against all odds.
“Everything worthwhile in life is won through surmounting the associated negative experience. Any attempt to escape the negative, to avoid it or quash it or silence it, only backfires. The avoidance of suffering is a form of suffering. The avoidance of struggle is a struggle. The denial of failure is a failure. Hiding what is shameful is itself a form of shame.”
– Mark Manson
The people who are using denial are the same thinking they can use any excuses to do whatever they want without taking any responsibility.
When you need to mask your action, you’re not positive, you’re just full of BS.
People who use positivity to justify their bad attitudes are just full of BS.
People who can face their reality without using excuses and keep going on are the real positive people.
You’re not positive in relation with others, you’re positive in relation with yourself and what’s happening to you.
You can’t get anyone to see hope in any situation. If they can’t see it, you can’t change that. You can only listen and hope they’ll find the strength to see a way out.
Get tired of being where you are! Start to get tired of living a life that isn’t what you dream it should be!
Find a reason to do it and then do it!
Get things done!
You can rest, after you did what you should do.
It’s way better to ‘do one good things a day’ for 30 days then to do many great things once a week for 30 days.
You have to realize that procrastination is the sickness of the mass. Most people don’t do anything good in their days. They just do the minimum to get fired. They don’t do anything to go for their dreams because they think they can do that later.
Look around you. Success is not associated with luck. It’s everyday hard work that bring success.