As soon as we are aware, we are responsible. That we choose to do something or not, we are responsible.
Now, start to do something about it.
No one can do what you can do as you can do it.
You are unique.
Even if you choose to look the other way, it’s too late. As soon as you are aware, you are responsible.
Yes, you’ll fight this with great explanation and excuses. You’ll work your way so you can think you’re not responsible. And it’s a sad thing. Excuses will not remove the responsibility.
Into influence, there’s 3 level of action.
The first is ‘Thinking’. We underestimate the power of our thinking and overestimate the futility of an idea. You can act on things happening around you with your mind.
The second is ‘Talking’. What you say has power and will influence the world around you. What you write is also ‘Talking’. Support Love and Health around you. You can’t take the pain away, but you can bring a small ray of hope in the darkness.
The third is ‘Action’. This is the most powerful. Taking action are made of the three at the same times. You need to think, you need to talk when you take action. Even the smallest of your action is way better than trying to ignoring what is happening.
Sorry, no one has been involved as you did in your experiences.
“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”
Stop comparing yourself with others.
You’re the only one who can really relate with what you are living.
Stop trying to understand what others are living. You can’t understand perfectly what they went true. Show compassion without any prejudice.
Support and compassion are the best way to be there for people who come to you with their problem.
There’s no way for you to repair what is wrong in the life of someone else.
“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.”
– Dalai Lama
The only way to help others is to start with yourself. The good you do for others will always come back to you. You can do some good for others, but you can’t take their load on your shoulders. That load is for them to carry.
Stop looking for someone else to do it for you. You must do it by yourself.
Yes, you can find some help and you should accept it, but in the end nothing will be over without your fool involvment.