by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote
— To feel the power of this text, place yourself in the “I” πŸ™‚ —

I take responsibility for my choices.

I stop whining.

I stop putting the blame on someone else.

Yes, things will happen that I can’t see coming or understand they will come. But I still have the power to choose how I will react.

I stand up.

I take actions.

I make choices.

I don’t let anyone taking the responsibility for my action.

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by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote
— To feel the power of this text, place yourself in the “I” πŸ™‚ —

Be a good student. There’s always something to get from our own experience. And also from the experience of others.

I can find the good stuff from any books. There’s always something good to get from a book. Sometimes it’s a little hard to find it, but in the end there’s always something.

I focus on learning something new and use it.

I take control!

I know I can choose.

I take action.

I don’t use excuses.

I’m not searching for something to blame for the bumb on the road.

I work hard and keep going on.

My future will be the result of my hard work.

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No blame

by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

To feel the power of this text, place yourself in the “I” πŸ™‚

My family will not do it for me.

My friend will not do it for me.

No one will do it for me.

It’s no use to blame. I take full responsibility.

This world bring us what we work for. Nothing comes out of nothings.

There is no short cut.

Stop wasting your time with the new way to get rich quick. Stop looking for an easy way. Get up and work for what you dream about.

I have a vision and work toward it.

From the inside out

by Serge ‘Mage’ Cote

To feel the power of this text, place yourself in the “I” πŸ™‚

It’s so easy to blame something outside. It’s so easy to distance ourselves from the result.

I don’t want to ask myself if I could have done something. I don’t want to wonder what could have been.

I know that I can’t change anything that is done. I know that my only power is in the present.

I can change the present! I just need to do something now.

We over estimate the power of others in the reality and underestimate our own power.

We wait for someone else to do it.

We whine about the inactions of others without asking what we could have done.

There’s always something that we could have done. Even if we think it would have not change anything, maybe it would have.

I will stop regretting what I didn’t do and start doing something right now in my reality.

It’s so much easier to point the fingers outside.



Blaming someone will not solve a problem.


β€œAll blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame them, it will not change you.”

Wayne Dyer


When you want to solve a problem, you need to understand what it means to you and what you should change about it.


No amount of blame will solve a problem.


Responsibility for what you did is all up to you.


The only way to change a situation is to take responsibility and find a solution.


Invest your energy into finding the solution instead of finding who to blame.


β€œGreat leaders don’t rush to blame. They instinctively look for solutions.

Nina Easton