Blaming someone will not solve a problem.
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame them, it will not change you.”
– Wayne Dyer
When you want to solve a problem, you need to understand what it means to you and what you should change about it.
No amount of blame will solve a problem.
Responsibility for what you did is all up to you.
The only way to change a situation is to take responsibility and find a solution.
Invest your energy into finding the solution instead of finding who to blame.
“Great leaders don’t rush to blame. They instinctively look for solutions.
– Nina Easton
We can’t change the past. We only have control over what we choose to do now.
« It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters. »
As things unfold, it’s already too late change it. You have the power over how you choose to react.
In your life, you’ll face the good, the bad and the ugly. We all do.
It’s up to us to choose how it will define us or not.
Be the change that you want to see in your life.
You can take action and change the world.
Everything you do matters. Even the small things will influence in some way.
“I am only one, but I am one. I cannot do everything, but I can do something. And I will not let what I cannot do interfere with what I can do.”
– Edward Everett Hale
You have influence, use it wisely.
If you choose to do nothing, you choose to do something. And it’s nothing. You influence as you did nothing.
“Do not waste your time on Social Questions. What is the matter with the poor is Poverty; what is the matter with the rich is Uselessness.”
– George Bernard Shaw
You don’t need to be rich to matter in the life of others.
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We progress and change as we go along with our lives.
“People change and forget to tell each other.”
– Lillian Hellman
Never expect to know how someone think.
Yes you can expect some reaction according to known pattern, but the result can differ with time.
“Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.”
– George Bernard Shaw
It’s an illusion to think we don’t change.
Even in death we’re still changing.
Work with the changes and try to influence them to be good ones.