Sorry, no one has been involved as you did in your experiences.
“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”
Stop comparing yourself with others.
You’re the only one who can really relate with what you are living.
Stop trying to understand what others are living. You can’t understand perfectly what they went true. Show compassion without any prejudice.
Support and compassion are the best way to be there for people who come to you with their problem.
There’s no way for you to repair what is wrong in the life of someone else.
“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.”
– Dalai Lama
The only way to help others is to start with yourself. The good you do for others will always come back to you. You can do some good for others, but you can’t take their load on your shoulders. That load is for them to carry.
Stop looking for someone else to do it for you. You must do it by yourself.
Yes, you can find some help and you should accept it, but in the end nothing will be over without your fool involvment.
Don’t trust the judgment of someone else about you. There’s a great possibility that it has been polluted with bad experiences or bad idea about what should or not be. When a judgment (or advice) doesn’t cost anything to the person giving it, then you should not take it.
A lot of people will disguise their judgment into advice. In reality, they are judging you and want to take you down so you don’t succeed more than them.
Sorry, but you will have to take no more BS in your life. You’ll have to stand up. You’ll have to take responsibility for your success and give it your 100%.
You’ll make mistake. Things will not always work as you expected. It’s ok, adjust and keep going on.
How can you love someone else if you can’t love yourself?
“When you are able to love yourself deeply, you can be kind to others.”
– Debasish Mridha
Be nice with yourself.
Set up personal time in your schedule.
That time is all yours and should not be spent for someone else.
“When you start loving yourself and respecting your time and energy, things will change. Get to know your worth, and your value will go up.”
– Germany Kent
How can someone else value you if you don’t yourself?
Celebrate your accomplishment. You don’t need others to sing your glory, all you need is to be proud of what you did. Be the one person for whom you are doing your best.
“Celebrate your achievements and victories without waiting for recognition from others; after all it’s your efforts which brought that accomplishment. A flower blooms in the desert with nary a person to appreciate its beauty, yet it blossoms, spreads its fragrance and enjoys its existence. A dew drop caught on the leaf in an unexplored forest sparkles like a diamond; it doesn’t need spectators to appreciate its beauty. You shouldn’t be dependent on others to encourage you instead be your own cheer leader… Love yourself to bits.”
– Latika Teotia