To feel the power of this text, place yourself in the “I” 🙂
I know that behind my fear is the wonder that I dream to get.
I have to face my fear to reach for my dream.
I have the determination to do it!
I will say less and do more!
I will move on!
I know that I can do it!
Obsessiveness seams bad when it’s not related with bringing something great into reality! It’s sad that most people can’t see what will come out of the action of others. Most will see obsessiveness as something wrong because they can’t see the good it will bring in the end.
I know that obsessiveness is not always good, because of the goal that has been set behind it.
Sorry, no one has been involved as you did in your experiences.
“No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man.”
Stop comparing yourself with others.
You’re the only one who can really relate with what you are living.
Stop trying to understand what others are living. You can’t understand perfectly what they went true. Show compassion without any prejudice.
Support and compassion are the best way to be there for people who come to you with their problem.
There’s no way for you to repair what is wrong in the life of someone else.
“Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.”
– Dalai Lama
The only way to help others is to start with yourself. The good you do for others will always come back to you. You can do some good for others, but you can’t take their load on your shoulders. That load is for them to carry.
Stop looking for someone else to do it for you. You must do it by yourself.
Yes, you can find some help and you should accept it, but in the end nothing will be over without your fool involvment.
There will always be someone to tell you that you can’t do it.
I’m not saying that they’re lying, I think that they could just miss some fact that would let you do it.
Fact are base on data that we gather. Most people think that because they read about something in the newspaper that it is a fact. In reality, most of things you find in a newspaper are set up realities. They take an information and rearrange it so it will be sensational. It’s still reality, but presented in a way that is ‘catching’ to most people. So, if you listen to those people, you could end up missing a chance to do something that would end up working.
Don’t base your choice of action only on what others tell you. Take the data, verify it on your own. And use only what you feel good about. You can use it to modify what you are planning, but don’t end up quitting.
Nothing great has ever been created from quitting.
If you really want to take advice, choose people who would have something to lose by giving you a bad advice.
People who don’t have any interest in your success will give you advice that doesn’t implicate them. They don’t care much about your success, so they won’t take much time to give you the best advice they can. Most of the time, they’ll give you something they got from someone else. Not something they tested themselves.