Are you a follower? Do you like others to choose for you?
Sometimes, it’s ok to follow. Most of the time it’s when you want to learn something that you can only learn following someone who can show it to you.
In reality, most will keep following because it feels safe.
Being safe following is an illusion. Letting someone else choose for you will never be all that you want. I can bring some good things, but it will never be all you want. In the end, you’ll always find disappointment.
“Each of you, as an individual, must pick your own goals. Listen to others, but do not become a blind follower.”
– Thurgood Marshall
Someone determine to reach for their dreams will only follow to learn.
“Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough.”
– Og Mandino
Follower think that they don’t face the responsibility for their failure. They live in the illusion of someone else being responsible. It’s an illusion, we’re responsible of everything we take action on. Even if it’s after someone else request or order.
No one can take the responsibility for your action.
Actions a linked to a need.
Taking action can be hard. Even more when the reason is not good enough.
Decide that you want it more than you are afraid of it.
You have the power to overcome your fear.
“A great future doesn’t require a great past.”
– William Chapman
“I am not what has happened to me. I am what I choose to become.”
– Carl Jung
You’re not what you did, you’re what you do right now.
Share what you know. Don’t use the text of someone else.
You can’t be good in everything, but you can sure be good in a few ones.
Use the good to make some good post.
“Be content with your lot; one cannot be first in everything.”
There’s no need for you to go outside of your comfort zone. But sometimes, you could expand your knowledge and develop a larger zone.
Learning is the fountain of youth.
Everything takes time to build.
Every trip start with one step.
“A jug fills drop by drop.”
How to realize your goals:
- Choose what you want.
- Write it down on paper.
- Take action with what feels good. Take the first step.
- Be consistent. Keep going on.
Many things can be said on how to achieve your goal, but if you keep it short those 4 steps are the basic.
“The journey of a thousand leagues begins with a single step. So we must never neglect any work of peace within our reach, however small.”
– Adlai E. Stevenson
Action in the right direction is all you need to get closer to your goal.
Remember, you need to know where you want to go before you take actions. How can you hit the target if you don’t look in the direction of the target?
Give away the extra that you have.
Give away with a true heart.
Give away with joy.
“To give without any reward, or any notice, has a special quality of its own.”
– Anne Morrow Lindbergh
You’ll feel great about it. It will bring new energy and a drive to accomplish your dream.
Friendship will come out of those actions. Good actions brings good relation.
All good actions are good, even if you do them without a true heart. You can never go wrong with a good action.
Put your trust in yourself.
Invest your energy into your dream.
“Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.”
– Khalil Gibran
There’s always a reason behind every advice. Make sure they are good for you.
Listen to every advice, but follow only the ones you can trust to be good for you.
“If someone gives you so-called good advice, do the opposite; you can be sure it will be the right thing nine out of 10 times.”
– Anselm Feuerbach
Follow your guts, if you feel it’s good for you. Then follow it.