Leader leading team

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A good word…

 

People want to know they’re doing well. What ever you find that is good, say so. And even better would be to do it publicly.

 

“No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself or get all the credit for doing it.”

 – Andrew Carnegie

Pick the leader among those who choose to follow you. Offer them the chance to take some leadership among the team. When you offer, it’s the first test you get them to take. If they take it, then maybe they have what is needed to become a leader in your team and if they don’t then maybe they still have some work to be done on them.

 

Do what needs to be done. But always offer your team to do some of it first. The more you’ll give them the opportunity to do, the more they’ll take from your shoulder. Support what is done and celebrate every success they’ll get.

 

“Leaders must be close enough to relate to others, but far enough ahead to motivate them.”

 – John C. Maxwell

You don’t have to always be the top, but you need to be among the top. Leaders have to do what needs to be done if they want their team to do the same.

 

Motivating by example is the most powerful way to do it.

 

“Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitude and in actions.”

 – Harold S. Geneen

Your attitude will become the attitude of your team. Your action will become the action of your team. Don’t expect something different.

 

“People buy into the leader before they buy into the vision.”

 – John C. Maxwell

 

A leader without a vision will not go far and will not get a lot of people to follow. The vision will drive the leader before it can drive the team.

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Your chains

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Break the chains stopping your from success.

 

You have the power to break those chains because they have been put there by you. No one else can do it for you.

 

“We have been conditioned to kid with ourselves, to lie to ourselves and to not really take an honest look at the results we’re getting.”

Bob Proctor

 

Be honest, are you doing all you can to reach your dream?

 

Are you taking an honest look at your result? Are you doing your best to learn from them and do better?

 

Success is all about progress.

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Respect

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Before you can get the respect of others, you need to respect yourself first.

 

“Respect yourself if you would have others respect you.”

Baltasar Gracian

 

Always respect others even if they don’t respect you. In the end it will always come back.

 

You can’t ask for respect, you’ll get it or not. It’s not up to you. You need to do whatever you feel is right and the respect will come from your action.

 

Stop worrying about the respect that others have or not for your work.

 

Respect will come from your actions. If you don’t act, you can’t get the respect from others that you want.

 

When you take action, you don’t know if it will have the effect you want. But if you do it with respect for yourself, you’ll at least have the good feeling for having done it.

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Enough

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Against all odds, dreams can come true if you want them bad enough. It’s all about how bad you really want it.

 

Quitting is easy when your dream isn’t that important to you. The closer they are, the more you’ll lose if you quit on them.

 

If you want to succeed, you need to have a dream that has a lot of meaning to you. Make it as personal as you can.

 

“Sometimes things become possible if we want them bad enough.”

T.S. Eliot

 

Don’t dream someone else’s dream.

 

Whatever your dream may be, it has to be the best for you.

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Dream

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Nothing great is ever done without starting from a dream.

 

The dream is the WHY.

 

Without the WHY, you will quit as soon as you’ll face a challenge.

 

A dream without action will never get you anywhere.

 

Your dream have to fill you up with energy and the drive to go on. The dream has to make you move and keep going on.

 

Some people only dream. They don’t take action. They wonder why they don’t get anything out of their dreams. The dream is only the first step. It’s not a result.

 

Some people have been beat up so much that they just can’t dream anymore. They don’t believe in hope. They think they are victims. Victims of the dreams of others.

 

Don’t play the victim game. You’ll never get anything good from a victim mind.

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Success of others

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Whatever someone else have, you can have it too. And without taking it from them.

 

“You can be the moon and still be jealous of the stars.”

Gary Allan

Don’t envy! Be happy for what others have. Knowing you can have it too.

 

Joy to the successful people. Successful people will celebrate the success of others. When you are into the flow of energy associated with success, you understand that it’s available to all. Competition is a product of the unsuccessful people.

 

If you take from someone else, you’ll end up giving back three times what you take.

 

Do without expecting a return and your return will be more then you expect.

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Status

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Status does not guaranty greatness.

 

Base your value on goodness. Be good for others and good people will gather around you.

 

“I have friends in overalls whose friendship I would not swap for the favor of the kings of the world.”

Thomas A. Edison
Be good, be social and be open to others. The good people will come to you.

 

Don’t be blinded by status. Listen to your guts and be good to all.

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Learning and Doing

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Learning is great. But doing is always better.

 

“You don’t learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing, and by falling over.”

Richard Branson

 

We all need to start up with the learning. Some will learn fast and some will be slower. It doesn’t matter, because it’s what they do with what they learned that will make an impact. In the end, the doers will always take the lead on the outside learner. Learning from the experience of other is great, but it won’t never as great as learning from your own experiences.

 

The more you’ll do and the more you’ll develop your special alarm senses. Yes, that special senses that will tell you if one thing is better than the other. That special senses cannot come from the experience of others, you have to build it on your own.

 

About that special sense, I have a story to tell you. My wife was working as a dispatch for a security alarm company. On that night, she was working as usual and doing her job. You have to understand that 98% of the alarm are false. So, to have a positive alarm is really rare. They were taking care of many thousands of alarm in an 8hrs shift. Among all those alarms, she got one alarm for a fire detection in a snack bar. She sent the fire department and went on with the other alarms. The fire department came back and report that there was no fire in there. She felt that something was wrong. She got a few more alarm from that place and she got that feeling that something was wrong. So she called back the fire department and told them that she kept getting an alarm and something was strange with that alarm coming back again and again. So the fireman got back to the snack bar and did some other test. They tested the place for gas and found out that there was a leak in there. It was a major leak. If it would have blown, the whole village would have exploded. In some way, she followed her feeling and saved many people. The feeling was good because she understood how the alarm where working and she had experience on the job. If this would have happen in her first week, there’s a good reason to think that she would not have push it further after the first check up from the fire department.

 

We all need to start up with some learning. Those who don’t take the time to learn the basics first will have to get it the hard way doing it. The problem with learning is there’s a lot of people that can’t take the next step into doing. You’ll have to find your edge in this. Some will need a lot of time and some a lot less. It’s ok to take the time you need. Because, in the end the ones who are doing and keep on doing will be the one to succeed.

 

Between learning and doing, doing is the best. But you need to keep on doing. Most doers who are quitting do it because they don’t have what is needed to keep going. They don’t know what they should do and they don’t know how they can find that information. And this could be helped with learning. You should keep on learning as you are doing. It will help you face the problem you’ll get on the way to reaching for your goal.

 

Learning the basics is like building a strong basement for your project. It will not assure you of success, but it’s a good way to start.

 

“There is no end to education. It is not that you read a book, pass an examination, and finish with education. The whole of life, from the moment you are born to the moment you die, is a process of learning.”

Jiddu Krishnamurti

 

There’s no end to learning, even if you think you don’t have anything more to learn, you’ll learn anyway.

 

“The brighter you are, the more you have to learn.”

– Don Herold                                               

 

Some very intelligent people think they know enough. That’s one more thing they’ll have to learn, that they have to keep on learning to the level of their capacity. You should always surpass yourself.

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Impact

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You do have an impact on reality.

 

“Remember upon the conduct of each depends the fate of all.”

Alexander the Great

 

Your action influence the fate of all. Taking action or not, you influence. By not taking action, you choose your action.

 

“Laws control the lesser man… Right conduct controls the greater one.”

Mark Twain

Violence is never a good option. Violence will bring violence. In the end, you’ll have to live with what you have done. Even if you did it for the greater good.

 

“Do unto others as you would have done to you.”

 

Respect the golden rule.

 

What you do to others will always come back to you. Sometimes in ways that you can’t associate.

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Fountain of youth

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If you keep on learning, you’ll never get old. Learning is the fountain of youth.

 

“Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years. We grow old by deserting our ideals. Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.”

 – Samuel Ullman

 

Enthusiasm in life is the way to keep up the need to learn more. When you loose that source of motivation, you loose the will to stay young.

 

“The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of the child into old age, which means never losing your enthusiasm.”

 – Aldous Huxley

The geniuses are the ones who find ways to keep their enthusiasm. No one can do it for you; you have to get it on your own.

 

You have the power to choose what you want. Even if there’s pressure from a lot of outside source to push you in one direction or another, in the end you always have the last word. Choose wisely, because the one who’s going to live with it is you.

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