Being happy is the only things that really matter.
If you are happy with your life, then I’m happy for you.
If you’re not, then maybe my book will help you.
If you don’t like my writing, then maybe you should not come back to my writing anymore.
I’m not here to convince anybody. I write because I want to. I write because I choose to. I write because I like to.
I write with the hope that some people will find it useful for them. I’m sorry, but if you don’t like what I write, it’s ok too. I don’t care. You can have your own opinion.
Please, don’t feel the need to try to convince me that your point of view is better than mine. You can think what you want it’s ok with me. I don’t feel the need to win anything with my writing.
I do read every comment. It’s ok to have a different vision on a subject. But please, take your aggressivity somewhere else.
It is so easy to judge when you don’t have all the information.
Your opinion doesn’t change anything. It will not define the situation, it will only define who you are.
The fact is, most people don’t really want to get your opinion. If no ones ask, keep it to yourself. Be careful, some company will ask for your opinion only to know you better and sell you something later.
There will always be someone to tell you that you can’t do it.
I’m not saying that they’re lying, I think that they could just miss some fact that would let you do it.
Fact are base on data that we gather. Most people think that because they read about something in the newspaper that it is a fact. In reality, most of things you find in a newspaper are set up realities. They take an information and rearrange it so it will be sensational. It’s still reality, but presented in a way that is ‘catching’ to most people. So, if you listen to those people, you could end up missing a chance to do something that would end up working.
Don’t base your choice of action only on what others tell you. Take the data, verify it on your own. And use only what you feel good about. You can use it to modify what you are planning, but don’t end up quitting.
Nothing great has ever been created from quitting.
If you really want to take advice, choose people who would have something to lose by giving you a bad advice.
People who don’t have any interest in your success will give you advice that doesn’t implicate them. They don’t care much about your success, so they won’t take much time to give you the best advice they can. Most of the time, they’ll give you something they got from someone else. Not something they tested themselves.
From Mage Mind 