Anger is directly linked to your Ego.
“Anger is an emotional response to being wronged, denied or offended.”
– Joseph Langen
The bigger your ego, the more reason to be angry you’ll find.
“In a controversy the instant we feel anger we have already ceased striving for the truth, and have begun striving for ourselves.”
We think that we are what we have. We think that we are what we accomplish. And we evaluate others based on that.
“The ego is only an illusion, but a very influential one. Letting the ego-illusion become your identity can prevent you from knowing your true self. Ego, the false idea of believing that you are what you have or what you do, is a backwards way of assessing and living life.”
– Wayne Dyer
You can choose to leave your ego at the door. Let the haters be who they want to be. But not letting them implicate you into their hate spiral. Nothing good can come out of hate and anger. Keep yourself away from them.
“Leadership is not a popularity contest; it’s about leaving your ego at the door. The name of the game is to lead without a title.”
– Robin S. Sharma
Ask and you shall receive.
You need to take action on what you want. Without the action, it’s only a wish. Wish can come true, but it’s always better to take action on it.
Keeping your wish alive is also important. The moment that you start to doubt it, you are working against yourself.
Everything is better when it’s simple.
“Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler.”
– Albert Einstein
Here’s my simple asking technique:
- Dream (Go Big)
- Write it down (with a date)
- Do (Take action)
Don’t wait for anything, keep on doing and doing. Adjust as you go along. There’s always something to adjust. As you do, always keep your eyes on the Dream.
What road you take to get there doesn’t matter. There’s always many ways to get there.
Give before you get. Don’t expect to get.
“Giving is the master key to success, in all applications of human life.”
– Bryant McGill
So would ask, why would I give if I can’t expect to get back?
If you don’t expect, you’ll get something back. You can’t know when or how, but it will come back. As long as you don’t expect.
“For it is in giving that we receive.”
– Francis of Assisi
Give with a good heart. Smile as you do so.
If you respect the golden rule, you are a step in the right direction.
‘Do unto others what you would have them do unto you.’
Every good action that you do will bring some wonderful energy into your life. You’ll feel great and if you keep on doing it, it will build a momentum.
Please, don’t be afraid of abuser. If you send good energy, only good people that really need your help will come to you.
“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.”
– Charles Dickens
Hang on, things will get better.
Nothing great is accomplish without effort, sacrifice and failure.
“Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go.”
– William Feather
Adjust and modify, but keep hanging on to your dream.
The way doesn’t matter as long as you know where you are heading.
“When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on.”
– Franklin D. Roosevelt
You can hang on.
Choose to stick to your dream.
When you get kicked down, get up and keep going on.
Like your job?
Doing a job you like?
Is there a difference between those two?
There isn’t a lot of difference between the two.
“Anyone can like their job… To love your job is not enough, you must give your passion to your job.”
– Zahi Hawass
Passion is what comes at the top. If you have passion for what you’re doing, it will not be a job.
You choose to like or not your job. It’s a choice.
Be amaze at the imagination of others.
Even if you don’t understand what it’s all about, it doesn’t means that it’s something that isn’t going to change the world.
Imagination is the source of every great things coming into reality.
“The true sign of intelligence is not knowledge but imagination.”
– Albert Einstein
One way to be creative is to try to find a way to solve a problem. You can work on more than one at the same time.
Your imagination will help you find avenue of possibilities.
If you find yourself stuck, you could maybe use this tips.
- Before you go to sleep, ask your subconscient to find an answer.
- Smile and thank your subconscient for the help.
- Release the problem in the hand of your subconscient with the certainty that you’ll get your answer as you will wake-up in the morning.
- In your mind, think about the great resting sleeping you’ll get tonight. Think about how rested you’ll be as you wake-up.
If you don’t understand it, don’t discredit it.
What you do today will shape tomorrow.
Reality is built around actions that we take in the present.
“The science of today is the technology of tomorrow.”
– Edward Teller
The difference between what we can have and what we have is only what choice is made on what should be available on the market.
There’s things out there that are fantastic, but they’re not available because no one want to puts them on the market.
You can have a positive influence on the world. Do what you do best and give it to the world. The world will find a way to get something as valuable back to you.
“The greatest pleasure I know is to do a good action by stealth and have it found out by accident.”
– Charles Lamb