You are the master of your reality. The last pieces is under your power.
“Our minds influence the key activity of the brain, which then influences everything; perception, cognition, thoughts and feelings, personal relationships; they’re all a projection of you.”
– Deepak Chopra
This is why, your reality could be very different from anyone around you.
Stop expecting that everyone’s perceive as you perceive.
Our memories changes as time goes by. Without a physical tool to get them vivid, they’ll change as we focus on them or not.
When you return to a good memory on a regular basis, it will remain vivid and as close as you want to what it really was.
It’s the same with bad memories. If keep on coming back to them, they’ll stay vivid and close to reality.
You can change your memories. You can modify them bit by bit.
Have you ever noticed that what you remember of a moment that you shared with someone could be different than what that person remembered?